Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Love Should Make You Happy

My mother once told me this when I was 19 and crying to her about my first love: "Love should make you feel happy, not miserable.  You are crying all the time."

I have found that if I am anxious or sad more often than I am happy when I am in a relationship, then that isn't a relationship I should be in.  Then I have to gather strength to pull the plug, which is sometimes harder than the anxiety.  I have found that if my friends are fretting about their relationships, asking, "What should I do?  What should I do?"  Then they already know the answer.

1 comment:

Miss Megan said...

I needed this reminder today. Thank you!