Once upon a time, I was dating someone who thought I spent too much money on other people. He never spent money on others. Period. Me spending any amount was too much.
I went to my father for counsel. He told me he had promised himself long ago that with every pay check he received, he would do something nice for someone else. As a result, he blessed the lives of many others, as well as his own. My father never ceases to reveal new ways for me to look up to him. Imagine, he had been doing this my entire life and I never knew - what a generous, humble, loving example.
Ever since that conversation with Dad, I've made a concerted effort to do something nice for someone else with every pay check I receive. Ends up something nice for someone else is always something nice for me too:-)
I challenge you to do the same, no matter how much or how little you have.