I love having photos - I think they are a great personal history while being fun at the same time. Nothing makes you giggle quite like an amazingly terrible photo. Nothing makes your heart melt quite like seeing the smiling faces of friends and family you love.
I would think that most folks would naturally want to have a few photos with the people they have dated regularly. I had this thought because I realized a strange phenomenon in my dating life.
I only have photos with one of the last six men I have dated. In fact, I've straight-up asked for photos before only to repeatedly be rejected. Is that strange? I think it is strange. A little suspicious/curious if you ask me...
My idea with that is that they were not invested enough to create something that permanent with you. It's like you may not be ready to meet their mother or best friend, they were not ready to become a solid fixture of dating that in no doubt in their mind would roam the internet via Facebook.
I have very few photos of me and DH together because it is always one of us on the other side of the camera.
That's why I kind of like being the picture taker. Then I know I'll have pics, whether the relationship works out (hopefully) or not.
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