tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post7399975007685089821..comments2024-03-26T08:41:31.169-06:00Comments on Larissa Explains It All...: Girls Don't Get It...Larissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-45889580572398130222012-03-19T22:50:26.848-06:002012-03-19T22:50:26.848-06:00Everyone needs to stop making such broad generaliz...Everyone needs to stop making such broad generalized statements!Dashbo's no-brainer math for right-brained folk.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03114888136133779391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-45859460575047520392012-03-14T10:16:18.940-06:002012-03-14T10:16:18.940-06:00@Ru - AMEN!
@Janell - Hilarious example:-)@Ru - AMEN!<br />@Janell - Hilarious example:-)Larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-58608775703877774942012-03-14T10:09:40.574-06:002012-03-14T10:09:40.574-06:00Things like this bug me for a very simple reason t...Things like this bug me for a very simple reason that you've already addressed. <br /><br />Normal girls (not just the "right" girl) understand concepts like, "It's late." "I'm tired." "I'm busy." "I just want to watch Sports Center or read."<br /><br />If a girl gets mad at you because you've told her no, and she's not crazy, there's a simple explanation. Either your "no" was a lot harsher than you intended, or your unexplained "no" was a final straw on your haystack of bad behavior. <br /><br />Anyone who can dismiss someone with, "You're crazy. You're confusing," is someone who lacks the self-reflection skills to consider that maybe you're not the nice guy you think you are. Most girls will cut a nice guy a whole lot of slack.Ruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04217026218961932530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-25026615784519273952012-03-13T20:49:09.125-06:002012-03-13T20:49:09.125-06:00I completely agree with the post and comments!
I ...I completely agree with the post and comments!<br /><br />I would add that good communication does require a degree of trust. Trust to ask the right question. Trust that the question will be answered honestly. Trust that the answer will be received well.<br /><br />All around bad example:<br />Boy: "May I kiss you?"<br />Janell: "No."Janellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11092893864737058248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-43369888135414693422012-03-13T09:08:04.718-06:002012-03-13T09:08:04.718-06:00It all boils down to knowing how to communicate, a...It all boils down to knowing how to communicate, and this guy obviously doesn't know how. <br /><br />Is it really that hard to say, 'thanks for the invite, but I've had a really long day and just want to veg and unwind. Raincheck?' <br />Any normal not crazy girl would completely understand. <br /><br />I agree with you. Tactful communication is the key.miss kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06146662055102145257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-17177453306118099282012-03-12T22:25:51.446-06:002012-03-12T22:25:51.446-06:00Just so you know it doesn't all go away when y...Just so you know it doesn't all go away when you are dating, engaged or married. There are still times were you feel like you should do what the other things. Which isn't always bad. Sometimes it is compromise and sometimes it is being unselfish. Thou it is always better to communicate.Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05879909443409505659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-16423193084291829112012-03-12T19:04:33.825-06:002012-03-12T19:04:33.825-06:00The problem I see with the scenario is the guy isn...The problem I see with the scenario is the guy isn't explaining why he wants what he wants. If I asked if he wanted me to come over and he said "no" without anything else (Darling, I'm exhausted, maybe tomorrow?), then he would be the bad guy for rejecting without reason. <br /><br />I can see why it ruffles feathers and to make it worse, we often assign gendered behavior to idiosyncratic individuals.LovelyLaurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940244810358859502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-3694155171228260592012-03-12T17:23:15.233-06:002012-03-12T17:23:15.233-06:00If you can't overanalyze your relationship, th...If you can't overanalyze your relationship, then what good is it?S.R. Braddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05582221111911630335noreply@blogger.com