tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post4620509590649807045..comments2024-03-29T01:16:06.653-06:00Comments on Larissa Explains It All...: Relationships: Analogies and the Latest in My LifeLarissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-30565793902116712252011-08-07T02:41:55.019-06:002011-08-07T02:41:55.019-06:00Thank you for your comment. I meant I reacted not...Thank you for your comment. I meant I reacted not at all to his mentioning the other girl because I didn't know if he was trying to get rid of me or trying to get me to tell him how I felt. <br />I thought I was pretty clear I was interested...I snuggled with him quite a bit (I am not a snuggle ho at all), gave him the little free time I had, and even asked him on a date to something quite spendy (he couldn't go). I reciprocated all his efforts I thought. The situation caught me off guard because I am used to being the initiator and the one doing all the sweet things but this guy beat me to the punch. It was a VERY good experience, I learned some great things that will hopefully help me in my next dating leap of faith.<br />I am happy to answer any other questions! :-)Larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-61747190745936278942011-08-06T22:40:15.304-06:002011-08-06T22:40:15.304-06:00------------------------------------
1. I want hi...------------------------------------<br /><br />1. I want him to tell me that he wants to be the one spending time with me, or 2. I am gently breaking the news that I'm just not that into him. I didn't know which direction to gear my reaction, <b>so I reacted not at all.</b> Unfortunately, as the days have progressed, the signs are crystal clear that I'm not the one the man I want to get to know most wants to get to know most. Also, unfortunately, I have no idea what flipped the switch from <b>working harder than any man has worked to catch my attentions</b> to running just as hard the other direction.<br /><br />------------------------------------<br /><br />This post is meant with love.<br />From what you say, it sounds like he was working very hard, but you "reacted not at all?" I wonder if this had anything to do with it. What were you doing to catch his attention? Sometimes I have been in a relationship where I feel like I'm doing all the work and the relationship for me seems unfruitful because the reciprocation is uneven or nonexistent. Did you let him know his efforts were working? How? Let's face it, most guys are dense and need a little help when it comes to women.<br />I am sorry you are hurting. You deserve so much happiness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-60017825129542827472011-08-04T17:00:56.174-06:002011-08-04T17:00:56.174-06:00"i much prefer computers. there is no emotion..."i much prefer computers. there is no emotional ambiguity in 1's and 0's" a friend of mine said when we were discussing our love lives... i know what you mean about not really feeling that something for someone stage but it just seems to get worse as you get older. But i am always obssessed about someone that will never change.<br /><br />PaulAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-20562737607991341612011-08-02T13:39:08.210-06:002011-08-02T13:39:08.210-06:00Ha - WHOA Anonymous! I've already got two dat...Ha - WHOA Anonymous! I've already got two dates planned...wonder if you are one of 'em? Ha. Too much;-)<br /><br />Megs - I love you, thank you!<br />Kristen - I love you too, but you should try to like the fella. If he's good enough for me to befriend, he can't be too shabby:-)Larissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15144055102075531918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-6139075166337098972011-08-01T15:41:37.480-06:002011-08-01T15:41:37.480-06:00I follow your blog regularly and I am always impre...I follow your blog regularly and I am always impressed with the things you post. While I am sad that you are in between men, I am also happy about it. I have wanted to take you out for quite some time. You will be hearing from me soon!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-62058340096183644022011-08-01T11:58:38.286-06:002011-08-01T11:58:38.286-06:00I'm glad that you learned through this experie...I'm glad that you learned through this experience that you're not broken -- that the experience was positive enough you hope for another successful audition/ relationship soon. I love to see you so happy, and I'm excited to meet the next guy who encourages you to feel that way!<br /><br />P.S. I love the analogy -- used it myself -- but I don't want you going into any relationship expecting it to end abruptly like a play does. Just wanted to make sure that was said.<br /><br />LOVES FOR YOU!!Miss Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13445902177299411832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6497139536276865329.post-16238977357818137072011-08-01T11:48:33.989-06:002011-08-01T11:48:33.989-06:00The fact he has made your heart hurt makes me not ...The fact he has made your heart hurt makes me not like him even more...miss kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06146662055102145257noreply@blogger.com